“Desiring to control the feelings of other people, performing specific acts to garner a definitive result is in the realm of dominance. Control freaks, dominants and sadists wield whips, insults, kisses and cuddles in order to elicit specific feelings from people. Those who wish to relinquish control relinquish desired outcomes. Desiring to make someone happy is in the realm of dominance, not submission.” ~ vorpal bunny
Quoted because it has meaning to me that I need to think about.