You are living with your boyfriend/girlfriend of a few months. You are still figuring each other out. You want more oral sexing from your partner. Your partner says they are willing to accomodate, but only when you are freshly washed up because otherwise they do not enjoy it at all.
Is this a reasonable request to make?
To me, the answer is a no-brainer – if I want my partner to get all up in my junk and they will only enjoy themselves if I’m freshly scrubbed, then I’ll scrub up. However, I was hanging out with a friend and her fairly new boyfriend this evening, and he seemed to be put out at her request.
And yes, we were discussing their sex life. We drank two bottles of wine and half a bottle of vodka between us, so the lines of ‘too much information’ were a little blurry. *grin*