Monthly Archives: August 2009

Boundaries

One of the things that I am learning, slowly, is that it is okay for me to not want to interact with toxic people, or passive aggressive people, or mean people, or people who are unwilling to respect my boundaries, … Continue reading

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Boundaries

One of the things that I am learning, slowly, is that it is okay for me to not want to interact with toxic people, or passive aggressive people, or mean people, or people who are unwilling to respect my boundaries, … Continue reading

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Stop!

I’m always ‘entertained’ when the media portray bdsm with the submissive partner as a victim. I have never felt less of a victim than when engaging in fully consensual* sm activities. *My caveat being, of course, that without full consent … Continue reading

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Stop!

I’m always ‘entertained’ when the media portray bdsm with the submissive partner as a victim. I have never felt less of a victim than when engaging in fully consensual* sm activities. *My caveat being, of course, that without full consent … Continue reading

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Homecoming

My camping trip to Tofino was lovely but I missed Maia and Andy quite a bit. Andy I knew was well taken care of, as I had my usual Andy-sitter in to love and spoil him while I was gone, … Continue reading

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Homecoming

Originally published at idle musings. Please leave any comments there. My camping trip to Tofino was lovely but I missed Maia and Andy quite a bit. Andy I knew was well taken care of, as I had my usual Andy-sitter … Continue reading

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